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Mediation

Family Mediation & Arbitration Lawyers Sydney

Most families sort things out without a judge. Mediation brings both of you together with a neutral person to reach an agreement about property or the children, privately, faster and at far lower cost than court. We prepare you well and stand beside you on the day.

How we can help

Our mediation lawyers can help you with

  • Preparing for mediation
  • Representing you at mediation
  • Parenting mediation and certificates
  • Property mediation
  • Turning an agreement into binding orders
  • Arbitration and other private options

Where you may be now

You decide the outcome, not a judge.

In court, a judge you have never met decides how your assets are divided and when you see your children. The evidence is public, the timetable is the court's, and the costs are considerable. In mediation or arbitration, you decide who hears your matter, when, and in what setting, and in mediation, you decide the outcome.

For families with privacy concerns, business interests or children who will need their parents to cooperate for years, that control is valuable. But it is only valuable if you come prepared. An unprepared party in mediation can agree to terms that a court would never have ordered.

How the law works

Dispute resolution in the family law system

The Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) is designed to encourage resolution without litigation.

  • Family dispute resolution (FDR) is mediation conducted by an accredited practitioner. Before applying for parenting orders, parties generally need an FDR certificate, subject to exceptions for family violence, child abuse, urgency and incapacity.
  • Pre-action procedures under the court's rules require parties in financial disputes to make genuine efforts to resolve the matter before filing, including exchanging disclosure and considering dispute resolution.
  • Arbitration of property and financial disputes is available by agreement or on referral by the court. The arbitrator's award is binding, can be registered, and can be reviewed by the court on a question of law.
  • Confidentiality
    FDR communications are confidential and generally inadmissible, subject to exceptions relating to child abuse and safety.
Choosing a process
MediationArbitrationCollaborativeCourt
Who decidesYouThe arbitratorYouA judge
Parenting disputesYesNoYesYes
PrivacyHighHighHighLower
SpeedFastFast to moderateModerateSlowest
BindingOnce formalisedYes (award)Once formalisedYes

Good to know

Getting the most out of mediation

In high-value property disputes, successful mediation depends on work done beforehand. Disclosure must be complete. Valuations must be agreed or tested. Tax consequences of each option must be understood. And the mediator must have the experience to handle trusts, companies and sophisticated counsel.

We prepare a clear position paper, model settlement options with your accountant, and agree the choice of mediator, often a senior family law barrister or retired judicial officer. Where a dispute turns on a narrow valuation or legal question, arbitration of that issue can unlock the rest of the settlement.

For parenting disputes, we can arrange child-inclusive mediation where appropriate, and we help you prepare for the conversation as much as the negotiation.

How we help

Prepared, represented, resolved

We attend mediation with you, advise you privately throughout the day, and negotiate on your behalf. Where agreement is reached, we record heads of agreement before anyone leaves the room and convert them promptly into consent orders or a binding financial agreement. Where agreement is not possible, we are ready to take the next step in the Family Court.

Last reviewed 27 September 2026 · General information only, not legal advice

The process

How a well-run mediation works

  1. Choose the process

    Mediation, arbitration or collaborative practice, and the right mediator or arbitrator for your matter.

  2. Prepare

    Disclosure, valuations and a position paper. We know the numbers and the risks before the day.

  3. The session

    Face to face, in separate rooms, or online. We advise you throughout and negotiate on your behalf.

  4. Formalise

    Terms are signed on the day where possible, then made into consent orders or a binding agreement.

Costs

How our fees work

You will know how your matter is being charged before any work begins, and you will not be surprised by an invoice.

Every engagement starts with a written costs disclosure, as the Legal Profession Uniform Law requires. It sets out how we charge, an estimate of total costs, the variables that could change that estimate, and your rights to negotiate and to receive itemised bills. If the estimate changes materially, we tell you in writing before the work is done.

Where a stage of the work can be scoped (a binding financial agreement, a consent orders package, a will and estate plan), we will usually offer a fixed fee for that stage. Where the other side’s conduct drives the work, as it often does in litigation, we charge on a time basis against a clear budget and report against it.

Barristers, valuers, forensic accountants and other experts are engaged only with your approval, and their costs are quoted separately. Your first 30-minute consultation is free.

Frequently asked

Mediation: your questions answered

Is mediation compulsory in family law?

For parenting disputes, you generally must attempt family dispute resolution and obtain a certificate before applying to court, unless an exception applies, such as family violence, child abuse or urgency. For property disputes, the court's pre-action procedures require genuine steps to resolve the matter first, which usually includes an offer of mediation.

Is what is said at mediation confidential?

Communications made in family dispute resolution are confidential and generally inadmissible in court, subject to limited exceptions, such as disclosures of child abuse or threats to safety. Private property mediations are also usually conducted on a without prejudice and confidential basis.

What is family law arbitration?

Arbitration is a private process in which an arbitrator decides a property or financial dispute and makes a binding award. It can be faster and more flexible than court. It is available for financial matters but not for parenting disputes. Awards can be registered with the court and reviewed on questions of law.

What is collaborative law?

In collaborative practice, both parties and their lawyers agree to resolve the matter through a series of meetings without going to court. If the process fails, the collaborative lawyers cannot act in litigation. It suits couples committed to agreement and to preserving a working relationship, especially as parents.

Do I need a lawyer at mediation?

You are not required to have one, but in property matters and complex parenting disputes, legal representation is strongly recommended. Your lawyer ensures you understand the likely range of outcomes, prevents you agreeing to terms that are not enforceable or not in your interests, and drafts terms that can be formalised immediately.

What happens if mediation does not work?

Nothing said in mediation is lost. The issues are usually narrower, the disclosure has been done, and each party understands the other's position. If agreement cannot be reached, a certificate can be issued for parenting matters and proceedings commenced.

Consultation

The first conversation may be the most important one you have this year.

Your first 30-minute consultation is free.

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02 9145 5266
Office
St James Trust Building, 185 Elizabeth Street
Opposite Hyde Park
Hours
Monday to Friday, 9.00am to 5.30pm. Online enquiries welcome 24/7.

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