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Family violence & AVOs

Domestic Violence & AVO Lawyers Sydney

If you are in immediate danger, call 000. If you are experiencing family violence, you do not have to deal with it alone. We give calm, practical advice about AVOs and about keeping you and your children safe, and we only contact you in the way you tell us is safe.

How we can help

Our family violence & avos lawyers can help you with

  • Applying for an AVO
  • Responding to an AVO taken out against you
  • Keeping children safe in parenting arrangements
  • Urgent court orders
  • How family violence affects a property settlement
  • Connecting you with support services

Your safety first

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You are not alone

Family violence is not always physical.

Family violence can be hitting or threats. It can also be controlling money, checking your phone, cutting you off from friends and family, or making you afraid of what will happen if you do not do as you are told. Many people experiencing it are told, or tell themselves, that it is not serious enough to matter.

It does matter. It affects your safety, arrangements for your children and, since June 2025, how property is divided. You are entitled to advice about all of it.

How the law works

Protection orders and family law

Apprehended violence orders
In NSW, protection is available under the Crimes (Domestic and Personal Violence) Act 2007 (NSW). Police can apply for an apprehended domestic violence order, and often do after an incident; you can also apply yourself at a Local Court. Orders can prohibit contact, approaching you or your home or workplace, and other conduct. Interim orders can be made quickly, and breaches are criminal offences.

Coercive control
Since 1 July 2024, abusive behaviour towards a current or former intimate partner that is intended to coerce or control them is a criminal offence in NSW.

Family law
Under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), family violence includes violent, threatening or other behaviour that coerces or controls a family member or causes them to be fearful, including economic and financial abuse. It affects family law matters in several ways:

  • Parenting
    Safety is the first best-interests factor. A Notice of Risk is filed with every parenting application. Family dispute resolution may not be required. Interim orders can restrict or supervise time.
  • Property
    The economic effect of family violence is expressly relevant to contributions and to future circumstances.
  • Injunctions
    The family courts can make orders for personal protection and for the protection of property, alongside or instead of an AVO.

How we help

Calm and practical

We listen first. We will not push you to take steps you are not ready for. We help you understand your options (an AVO, urgent family law orders, safe arrangements for the children, financial support) and we work with police, support services and counsellors where that helps.

If an AVO has been sought against you, we give frank advice on how to respond, recognising the effect that decision will have on any family law proceedings.

When you are ready, we move to the longer-term issues: parenting arrangements, property settlement and, where needed, proceedings in the Family Court.

Last reviewed 27 September 2026 · General information only, not legal advice

The process

Taking the first steps, safely

You set the pace. We start with safety and only move as quickly as you are ready to.
  1. Safe contact

    Tell us how and when it is safe to reach you. We will not email or call unless you say we may.

  2. Safety & protection

    Advice on AVOs, police involvement, urgent family law orders and support services.

  3. Children & home

    Interim arrangements for the children and, where needed, who stays in the home.

  4. Longer-term orders

    Parenting and property matters, with family violence properly taken into account.

Costs

How our fees work

You will know how your matter is being charged before any work begins, and you will not be surprised by an invoice.

Every engagement starts with a written costs disclosure, as the Legal Profession Uniform Law requires. It sets out how we charge, an estimate of total costs, the variables that could change that estimate, and your rights to negotiate and to receive itemised bills. If the estimate changes materially, we tell you in writing before the work is done.

Where a stage of the work can be scoped (a binding financial agreement, a consent orders package, a will and estate plan), we will usually offer a fixed fee for that stage. Where the other side’s conduct drives the work, as it often does in litigation, we charge on a time basis against a clear budget and report against it.

Barristers, valuers, forensic accountants and other experts are engaged only with your approval, and their costs are quoted separately. Your first 30-minute consultation is free.

Frequently asked

Family Violence & AVOs: your questions answered

What is an AVO in NSW?

An apprehended violence order is a court order made under the Crimes (Domestic and Personal Violence) Act 2007 to protect a person from violence, harassment, intimidation or stalking. Where the parties are or were in a domestic relationship, it is called an apprehended domestic violence order, or ADVO. Police can apply, or you can apply yourself at a Local Court.

What happens if someone breaches an AVO?

Breaching an AVO is a criminal offence. You should report any breach to the police. Breaches are also relevant in family law proceedings.

What is coercive control?

Coercive control is a pattern of abusive behaviour (such as isolating a partner, monitoring them, controlling their money, or threatening and intimidating them) used to dominate and control. In NSW, coercive control in current and former intimate partner relationships became a criminal offence on 1 July 2024. The Family Law Act's definition of family violence also includes coercive and controlling behaviour.

Does family violence affect parenting arrangements?

Yes. The safety of the child and of each carer is the first best-interests factor the court considers. Family violence is disclosed in a Notice of Risk, can mean family dispute resolution is not required, and can justify urgent orders and supervised or restricted time.

Does family violence affect a property settlement?

Since June 2025, the Family Law Act expressly requires the court to consider the economic effect of family violence: both on a party's ability to make contributions and on their current and future circumstances. This can affect the division of property.

Someone has taken out an AVO against me. What should I do?

Get advice before your first court date. Comply strictly with any interim order, even if you believe it is unjustified. Many applications can be resolved by consent without admissions, but the decision to consent or defend affects family law proceedings, so it should be made with advice.

Consultation

The first conversation may be the most important one you have this year.

Your first 30-minute consultation is free.

Telephone
02 9145 5266
Office
St James Trust Building, 185 Elizabeth Street
Opposite Hyde Park
Hours
Monday to Friday, 9.00am to 5.30pm. Online enquiries welcome 24/7.

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